Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Infidelity?
I thought about what this meant to me. My thoughts about infidelity were mixed. Half of me thinks that infidelity is wrong because that is what I have been taught. I've heard many friends cry and suffer over this. Many times when I heard them talk about it I was tempted to justify the man. Many times they didn't want to hear it but I believe that infidelity is not done with the intent to hurt anyone. It is just happened for the pleasure of oneself. It is hard to be in the shoes of either party. But living happy is not against the rules. I believe that life is only lived once. Mistakes will be made. Maybe we'll regret what happened or regret it not happening but it was an experience either ways. It would be perfect to marry the perfect person but even when we do things change, other people come along, and even we change. An affair, is just a fling. Nothing serious. Just something fun to do for a while. I've seen friends, lose everything because they are offended and the husband doesn't even stay with the other woman. In my opinion, its not worth it. We should be free. For everything. Love, Life, Marriage. I don't know how I would react but I tend to be understanding and free!!! and expect the same!!! No judging.
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Infidelity is a very serious subject since many have been hurt as a consequence to these actions. Now, whether we choose to stay or leave is up to us and depending on how much damage has been done. It is so sad to hear about stories in which a person commits suicide after being cheated on. I understand your point of view, and of course we are all free to feel the way we feel about certain topics. I would like to say that thankfully I never saw my mother suffer over infidelity because my father never cheated. On the other hand, I know my grandma went through a lot of infidelities from my grandfather and she always forgave him. The sad thing is that she never actually considered leaving him because she felt to a certain point it was normal. I am not saying that only men cheat, women have done it also. Why is it more acceptable when men cheat than when a woman cheats? This has always been a question I wanted to find an answer for. At the end, I think we all need to be respected and if infidelities happen and repeat themselves repeatedly maybe it should not be considered a mistake. Truth is there is a lot of sides to infidelity and I would not like to judge since I have never been in a situation like that. It is known that men with higher levels of testosterone definitely have a higher sex drive. Can we blame testosterone for men's infidelities? I would say not, at the end of the day each person does what they want to do. Infidelity can be a mistake but other times it can be just an act of pleasure with no regret.
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