Infidelity?

I thought about what this meant to me.  My thoughts about infidelity were mixed.  Half of me thinks that infidelity is wrong because that is what I have been taught.  I've heard many friends cry and suffer over this.  Many times when I heard them talk about it I was tempted to justify the man.  Many times they didn't want to hear it but I believe that infidelity is not done with the intent to hurt anyone.  It is just happened for the pleasure of oneself.  It is hard to be in the shoes of either party.  But living happy is not against the rules.  I believe that life is only lived once.  Mistakes will be made.  Maybe we'll regret what happened or regret it not happening but it was an experience either ways.  It would be perfect to marry the perfect person but even when we do things change, other people come along, and even we change.  An affair, is just a fling.  Nothing serious.  Just something fun to do for a while.  I've seen friends, lose everything because they are offended and the husband doesn't even stay with the other woman.  In my opinion, its not worth it.  We should be free.  For everything.   Love, Life, Marriage.  I don't know how I would react but I tend to be understanding and free!!! and expect the same!!!  No judging.

Pain is something that I wish I could get rid off.  I am otherwise a health person.  I am tolerant of pain.  I can function properly regardless of sleep depreviation, if I have a cold, or even if I am tired and hungry.   The one pain that I cannot stand is a migraine.   I am unfortunate to be one of many who suffer from these kind of headaches.  My level of pain for this becomes intolerable.  I literally go to my room and turn off all lights,  no noise.  I become nauseous and find no relieve even after I eventually throw up.  This migraine can last all day and sometimes a dull pain remains for days.  That is the only thng that throws me in bed and makes me cry in pain. My drug of choice.....Excedrin Migraine.   Which is now off the market.  Generic work but gives me an upset stomach but anything is better than a migraine.  I wonder how I will function normally.  I wonder if I will be able to hold a stable job.   I wonder if today will be a good day with no pain.healthyfellow.com

Missing brain

I recently heard about a toddler who was born with no brain.  It was hard for me to understand how he could live without having a brain.  UnfortunAtely, he could not hear or see or move.  Many other things were also wrong.  I just had never heard about a baby born like this.  It intrigues me as to whether or not the mother did something or if it was just nature.  www.youtube.com/watch?v=WMlVNFpzKNI